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"I hate Mother’s Day", I heard someone say ...

28/4/2016

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"I hate Mother’s Day", I heard someone say ...

Mother’s Day is different for everyone. Whether you are a mother or a child your relationship with your own mother is a personal connection like no other.

I know if your child or mother has died then Mother's Day brings out the emotions and can trigger so many different feelings including: "I hate Mother’s Day".

Mother’s Day has definitely changed for me since my mum died. But I have actually changed my perspective and can now say: "I love Mother’s Day". I love it as a mother and I love it as a daughter.

Yes, my own mother is dead so there are no longer physical hugs or physical contact. However, she is ever present with me now. I can go anywhere with her on Mother's Day because everywhere I go I hold a special place for her in my heart.

Just like any other day, I know on Mother’s Day there will be happy and sad feelings which come and go. I will allow them without resistance and embrace them throughout my day.

Now I say: “I give myself permission to feel without judgement”, and that means I no longer have to fear Mother's Day or any other day. I can embrace the moment knowing my mum is with me every step of the way.
 
Jude xoxoxo

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Terry Segal link
6/5/2016 01:27:37 am

So lovely. Heart to heart for all of us children and mothers. Thank you. <3

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Judy Taylor
9/5/2016 09:15:01 am

Yes Terry, heart to heart. ❤️ Thank you. ❤️

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Julie Mjelve link
8/5/2016 12:16:42 pm

So wonderfully said!

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Judy Taylor
9/5/2016 09:15:56 am

I'm glad it touched you Julie. ❤️

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Margaret Moss
2/5/2019 12:27:39 am

Beautiful sweetheart. xoxo

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Erica link
4/12/2020 03:01:24 pm

Hi ggreat reading your post

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